Tuesday, November 30, 2004

why girls suck

it's a harsh fact, ladies, but it's true. a majority of girls suck (and i'm not talking about "sucking" litterally). you can disagree all you want, but i can guarantee that at least ONE of the characteristics i've listed below can apply to you. these things aren't permanent, we can change if we really wanted to... but it's in our nature.

no doubt that boys suck, but that's another chapter.

now then, here is a list of why girls suck (in no particular order):
  • we expect things we don't ask for --> these things can be matericalistic (ex. a gift for petty occasions) or some kind of action (ex. opened doors, complements, etc.). when we don't get it, we're not seriously depressed, just a little disappointed.
  • we never know what we want from people --> if we're upset at someone and they ask us what we want them to do, we don't know! it's like a "you should know"-typa deal.
  • when we flirt or joke around, we expect the other party will play along --> it doesn't matter if you have a girlfriend or not, or if you're a girl yourself, it's manners to humour us.
  • BUT going along with that, not every little action is a "subtle sign of affection"... we may just be friendly, not flirty. up to you to decide what is what.
  • we're selfish and stubborn --> everyone's selfish in some aspect or another, but when we want something (someone), we'll do whatever it takes to get it (until we realize that there's absolutely no way of getting whatever it is... and this realization usually comes when it's too late).
  • there's usually no logical explaination of how we feel, when we feel it (unless it's PMS). please don't think we' just trying to hide something or we're mad at you... because for the most part, there is no logical explaination to satisfy you. For example, if i say, "i'm not feeling too good today." Don't continuously ask me questions like, "was it something i did? was it something you ate? did you get in an agruement? is it that time of month? what happened?!" Guys, show your concern and comfort us, but don't be a broken record of questions.
That's about all i have thus far... if you have any comments, i urge you to respond. this way, i'll know who to add on my "to kill" list.

i have conformed once again

for the longest time i watched as my friends spill their hearts and guts into a blog page and subtly hint to me to go read it... though i do on occasion read them, i'd always prefer them to just tell me. would you rather hear a conversation directly from the person or through a webpage of words in a writing style they'd never use/say in real life?

now i have become one of them.

i want to experience the satisfaction of spending hours to write a paragraph or 2 about the messed up things i'm thinking or things that happen to me which, i know, only a handful of ppl will read.

if you're ready to step away from artificial norm of reality, than step into me.

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1 of 8 life goals: try all the different kinds of Pocky.
-->Today, i had the "Royal Milk Tea Mousse" Pocky... ~drool~